The World Feels Heavy Right Now
- Deidre Dattoli

- 12 minutes ago
- 2 min read
There is a heaviness many people are carrying right now, whether they have named it or not.
When the world feels uncertain, our nervous systems feel it too.
In a recent mentoring session, I sensed it in the room. Capable women speaking about strategy and growth, yet underneath it all was a current of fear. They were pushing to resume business as usual, without processing what was going on beneath the surface. Because of this, conversations turned towards what we can and cannot control.
Later that day, I spoke with my travel agent about my daughter’s upcoming trip to Spain via Doha. She sounded overwhelmed. Not because she could not manage the logistics, but because she was absorbing the collective anxiety of her clients.
We are still showing up. Still working. Still caring for others.
But many nervous systems are stretched thin and running on high alert in the background.
When global events intensify, we do not just process them intellectually. Our bodies process them. I became viscerally aware of this process after fracturing my leg.
Physically, I was healing, but my nervous system was not. Each time I replayed the fall, lying in the rain waiting for the ambulance, my body braced. My breath shortened. My system switched back into fight or flight as if it were happening again.
I realised then that we do not heal by pretending something is not there. We heal by allowing the body to process what it has been holding.
Because I could not walk, I could not regulate through busyness. I had to sit with it. And I returned to three simple practices.
Awareness: What am I actually feeling in my body right now?
Acceptance: Can I allow this emotion to be here without judging or suppressing it?
Action: How do I help this energy move through?
Emotions are energy in motion. When we allow them to move, the stress cycle can be completed. When we suppress them, they store. And stored emotion quietly drains clarity, creativity and leadership capacity.
Sometimes my action was tapping. Gently tapping while naming what I felt helped my system soften. Sometimes it was simply naming the emotion out loud and letting tears come.
Right now, many default to pushing through. Scrolling. Analysing. Performing. Suppression may keep us functional, but it does not make us well. And what I need to reiterate is that suppression is not strength.
Strength is not pretending we are unaffected. Strength is learning to regulate, to return to centre, to ground instead of living in constant activation.
If you are feeling activated but stuck, try this:
Name the emotion.
Rate its intensity out of 10.
Tap gently on the side of your hand and say, “Even though I feel this, I allow my body to soften,” for 60 seconds. Notice what shifts.
Small moments of processing prevent long seasons of suppression.
Your body was never designed to carry everything alone. If you’re looking for a next step, I am considering putting together a meditation to help those in my community cope in these times of uncertainty.




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