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Writer's pictureDeidre Dattoli

When Was The Last Time You Had Fun?

When was the last time you truly played? 


I’m not talking about the structured kind of play or exercise that’s meant to check a box on your to-do list. I mean the kind of play that leaves you feeling energised and alive, where time seems to disappear, and all that matters is the joy of the moment. 

Often, as we navigate the responsibilities of adulthood, we lose touch with this essential part of ourselves. We forget that play and creativity aren’t just for children, they are vital to our overall well-being.


Play and creativity can help us reconnect with our inner child, reduce stress, boost our mood, and foster a sense of fulfilment and aliveness. These activities fill our cup, giving us the energy we need to thrive rather than just survive. When we embrace play and creativity, we tap into a wellspring of joy and vitality that can transform our lives.



So, how do you begin to invite more play and creativity into your life? Here are three ways you can reconnect with this essential part of yourself.


1. Rediscover the Joy of Childhood Activities

Think back to the activities that brought you joy as a child. Did you love drawing, dancing, building with blocks, or playing make-believe? Often, we abandon these pursuits as we grow older, telling ourselves that we’re “not good enough” or that we need to focus on more “serious” matters. But the truth is, these activities held a special kind of magic for us because they allowed us to express ourselves freely and without judgement.


Take a moment to reflect on what you used to love doing, even if you haven’t engaged in those activities for years. Start small—maybe it’s picking up a colouring book, dancing around your living room, or building something with your hands. The key is to approach these activities with a sense of curiosity and playfulness, rather than focusing on the outcome. Remember, it’s not about being perfect; it’s about the joy of the process.


2. Try Something New and Novel

One of the most powerful ways to spark creativity and play is by trying something completely new. When we step out of our comfort zones and engage in novel activities, we stimulate our brains, create new neural pathways, and reignite our sense of wonder. This can be anything from taking a pottery class, learning to play a musical instrument, or experimenting with a new recipe in the kitchen.


The beauty of trying something new is that it challenges us to see the world in a different way. It breaks up the monotony of our daily routines and opens us up to new possibilities. So, give yourself permission to be a beginner again. Allow yourself to explore without the pressure of being “good” at something. You may just discover a new passion or hobby that brings you immense joy.


3. Incorporate Play into Everyday Life

You don’t need to set aside hours of your day to experience the benefits of play and creativity. Even small moments of play can have a profound impact on your well-being. Think about how you can infuse play into your daily routine. This could be as simple as playing a game with your family, going for a walk in nature and noticing the beauty around you, or taking a few minutes to doodle or journal.


The key is to be intentional about creating opportunities for play and creativity. Ask yourself, “What would feel fun right now?” and then follow that impulse. Over time, you’ll find that these moments of play become something you look forward to, a source of energy and joy that helps you navigate the demands of everyday life without feeling drained.


Play and creativity are not frivolous. They are essential to our well-being. 

When we make time for play, we give ourselves the gift of joy, energy, and renewal. We reconnect with the part of ourselves that knows how to be fully present, fully alive, and fully engaged in life. So, take that first step. Rediscover the activities that once brought you joy, try something new, and find ways to incorporate play into your everyday life. You deserve to live a life filled with creativity, play, and the vibrant energy that comes with it.


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